What
does the older man and the younger woman have to do to make a relationship real.
1). It starts with finding some commonality to engage as partners
2).identifying each others needs and can they be satisfied
3). Knowing that each others culture may not understand the relationship. As a couple you must believe in each other not what others may say.
4). If marriage is being considered, a discussion about having children is important.
5). With the age difference think about the future he ages and the younger woman approaches her prime.
6). Express your love always
Yes can make it work with a lot of effort but, if not come to the realization and move on. Do not live a fairy tale, live the life you want.
Good Luck to all