So, where should I begin? I'm too old to have had a serious relationship yet. I'm from Ukraine, and frankly, I still haven't figured out what I want from life, which sounds weird at my age, right? But here's the thing: I've been so focused on doing rather than being that I've never had time for a relationship until now. My friends joke that I'm the most inexperienced person they know, and they're probably right. But I'm okay with that because it means everything is still exciting and new for me. 🙌
What really inspires me:
I'll be honest – I love cars. I really do. Not in the "oh, what a cool car" sense, but in the "I bought my old Peugeot and spent my winters learning to drift" sense. There's something special about that moment when you lose traction on ice, feel the car's weight shift, and finally gain control... it's addictive. My friends think I'm crazy for doing it in a front-wheel drive car, but that's exactly why I decided to try it. Everyone said it wasn't suitable for drifting, so naturally, I had to prove them wrong. 😄 I'm not a professional, just someone who's genuinely interested in how cars actually work, not just how to drive them.
As for fitness:
I go to the gym regularly because it helps me clear my head. I'm not one to post gym selfies or obsess over perfect macronutrient ratios. For me, it's the feeling when your body does what you tell it to, when you're stronger than you were last month. Honestly, it's the only place where I feel completely in control, and that's probably why I love the gym so much. Plus, you meet interesting people at the gym – everyone's just doing their own thing, no one judges anyone.
Development:
I'm currently taking English classes because I want to learn how to communicate properly in English, not just settle for the basics. I love learning, probably because I like to deeply understand things, not just skim the surface. My teachers say I ask too many questions, but I can't help it. If I do something, I want to do it right.
Honestly about me:
Sometimes I'm a little awkward in social situations. I overthink things. I can be stubborn – see: drifting a Peugeot. I put off things that don't interest me, but I obsess over things that really excite me. I laugh at odd moments. I'm the kind of person who starts researching something random at 11 PM, and then suddenly it's 2 AM, and I'm still reading. I really care what people think of me, and that's both a strength and a weakness. I listen more than I talk, and I remember little details about people—like how they drink their coffee or what song they once sang.
When I'm comfortable with someone, I can talk for hours about literally anything. But without that comfort? I'm quiet and observant. It takes time to achieve this, but I think it's worth it.
!!!💬 How to break the ice with me:
Don't just say "hi." Ask me about anything—about cars, about Ukraine, why I'm learning English, about the weirdest thing I've ever done. Or ask me if I'd try drifting your car if I had the chance. (Don't worry, I probably won't damage it. Probably. 😉) Basically, give me something to talk about, and I promise you'll get a real conversation in return.
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Looking for
18 – 80 years old
First of all:
I'm looking for someone who genuinely wants to build something real, not just have fun. I know I don't have much relationship experience, but that doesn't mean I'm not serious about them. On the contrary, I'll probably be more cautious because I have nothing to compare it to, so the relationship has to be good. 😅
What would be really nice:
Someone with genuine interests and hobbies—no matter what. You can be obsessed with guitars, cooking, motorcycles, philosophy, your work, video games, whatever. I just want someone who cares. Apathetic people tire me. I want to hear how passionate you are about what you do, even if it's not mine. That energy is contagious.
Patience would be great:
Since I haven't had any relationship experience yet, I'm likely to make mistakes. I may not always understand what you need or how to express my needs. I might overthink whether the message was too direct or not direct enough. But I'm willing to learn, and I think that's the most important thing. If you're the type who likes to figure things out together rather than expecting everything to be perfect from day one, we might be a good fit.
Character traits I really like:
Humor. Not in the sense of forced jokes, but real humor—the ability to find the absurd in everyday things. Someone who can laugh at themselves. Smart people who understand this but don't need proof every five seconds. Confidence without verging on arrogance. Honesty, even when it's uncomfortable. Someone who asks questions and really listens to the answers, rather than waiting their turn to speak.
Practical points:
I need someone who has their life more or less in order. You don't have to be rich or perfect, but you should have direction and purpose. You should be able to talk seriously about things – dreams, fears, weird thoughts. Also, if you're jealous or controlling, please don't message me. I need someone who trusts me and knows I'm with them because I want to, not because I have to.
It would be a plus:
If you drive and really love cars, we'll have something wonderful to share. We could drive together, discuss engines, and rate other drivers together. But honestly, even if you're not interested in cars, I'll probably still make you sit in the passenger seat while I explain why I love them. 🚗
If you go to the gym or exercise, that's great – we could share that part of our lives. But it's not necessary. Just don't judge my dedication to it, and I won't judge your hobbies.
What I'm really afraid of:
Disappointing you. Moving forward too slowly or too quickly. At first, I'm too quiet, and you'll think I'm boring. To get attached and then not feel the same way. All this vulnerability—opening up to someone when you've been independent your whole life—is terrifying. But I guess that's the point, isn't it? Growth happens outside your comfort zone.
The point is:
I'm ready for something real, something meaningful. Not perfect—I don't believe in perfection anymore—but real. Someone with whom I can share strange, mundane, and exciting moments. Someone who understands why a perfect winter ski run feels like flying. Someone who thinks it's cool that I'm learning English simply because I want to get better at it.
