The story of single Russian woman Galina who married with two children

This time, again, We are going to tell you a true story of our client: she had been striving against her fate for the happiness of her family, staying the course firmly. Step by step, no matter the odds, she didn't give up. No matter how long it had been since she began getting acquainted with foreigners on the Internet, no matter the number of the girls having been married successfully during all those years, though she could see it with her own eyes. Neither the whisper of envy nor the shadow of a doubt that she would be lucky. Most likely, it was such lucky strikes which gave her the motivation and belief that she would meet Him and make her dreams come true. Thus, the heroine of our story called Galina (do you know what does this name mean in Latin? - “A hen”...))) Now, when writing this article, we recall the logo of the company "Gallina Blanca": brood-hen and two chicks. For, bouillon cubes "Galina Blanca" have been positioned as home-made and at the first set-out, an ordinary family were cooking them in their ordinary kitchen. Why has the "Gallina Blanca" logo reminded of our today's story heroine? You'll get it a bit later. Galina came to us in the first year as we started to work in Russian dating. She decided to come to our office, without a phone call. At the time she was about forty. She was one of usual single Russian women. After her first unsuccessful marriage, she had two children. By appearance, Galina was regularly looking, pretty and slim... In a nutshell, an ordinary woman, a lot of which live in Russian cities. But, at the same time, being still a young girl, we could see in her those feminine values which not many of us have. Galina has been a woman of moral principles, clear and precise, she's had a strong backbone, which helped to keep her and her family during those difficult times. Not that she was open and talkative, life has taught her to keep everything inside her. So, it was difficult to understand what kind of man she wanted to meet. But we decided to act, and the time would've told. Galina was working all day long, and it was not easy for her to come often to our office and take the letters from the men and respond to them at the same time. We remember her tired looks and a desire to meet someone reliable and responsible, to take a rest after all that struggle with difficulties, to live just a bit in a stable and happy state. Her family: mother and children, have always been a strong support for her. Her children have been well-brought up, and when Galina took them with her to my office, they were sitting beside her and waiting patiently for her to finish and take them back home. Sometimes it was her mother who brought letters for the men to be translated and sent. Because Galina has already known from experience: if you do not respond in time, the interest in men disappears. A year had passed, but something went wrong with the acquaintances. But we saw her perseverance and belief in her goal. We updated the profiles, Galina made some new photos. She made new acquaintances and seemed to have become more active, but it was not so easy for her to find exactly the man she had dreamed of. We are just going to explain to you why it was that way... Do you know why many of our single Russian women, having remained with the children after the divorce, can not get married? Galina repeated the mistake of the majority: she was not looking for a man for herself, but a father for her children... She prioritized the children's future to her own needs and wishes. A man, first of all, is looking for a Woman, neither for a housewife nor a mother, moreover not his own children's mother. You know quite well the phrases, which characterize the women from Russia and CIS: “I live for the sake of my children”, “all the best – for the children”, “the children need a father”, etc. Doing that, women deny their own needs, their right to woman's happiness, forgetting of that only a happy mother can grow up happy children. Her name suited her perfectly: she was a real "mommy-hen”, which tried to protect the future of her children, from the expense of her own life. In fact, she came to our dating site not for herself, but for the sake of her family. That's why we remembered the logo of "Gallina Blanca": brood-hen and two chicks, at the very beginning of the story. By the time, she had already made her mind about what kind of man she actually wanted, that's why it got a bit easier for us to work with her. Some more time later, the "ladies", who came to us at the same time with her, had already met their men and got married. After each successful news of the marriage of a client, Galina sighed - not with envy, but with relief: it was so good, that one more girl had managed to find a husband. And she as a single Russian women was not disappointed, but on the contrary, motivated to meet the man which would be ready to take the responsibility for her family and to accept her children as his own ones. She was a "Mom" in the best sense of the word ... Nice, industrious, home-loving family woman, neither greedy nor envious. I've never asked who was the initiator of the divorce with her husband, but it seemed to be that it was her. Men seldom get through with such women. And she had quit just for her children's sake, not her own. Because her husband was not a good father to their children. And now, for the sake of the children she was ready to do whatever... So, one day ... To be honest, we do not remember exactly how it happened. It was the usual thing: one day an American man got interested in her for Russian dating. Galina reacted to his interest with a weary indifference, but nevertheless, she arrived after work to my office to take his letter and to have a look at his profile. She read, looked through. The day after, she called us and gave an approval to send him her presentation. The man replied her at once. That moment he was already hooked: yes, there was a certain "zest" in her presentation, that attracted him. Then, an active correspondence on Russian datng site and ... Galina seemed alive! He began calling her, listened patiently to her basic English, gave flowers and gifts, and they finally met! When Galina came to us after the date we couldn't even recognize her... You know what they say, the only date with a man can change a woman dramatically, both for the better and for the worse.))) No one could recognize Galina, usually tired and reserved. She transformed totally: she was just flying and chirping like a bird in love, without hearing what we were talking about - it all did not matter, the main thing for her was to meet him again !!! That's how that man managed to make a mash on her and to fall in love himself. Perhaps it was for the first time in her life that Galina thought about herself: her feelings, desires, dreams ... She remembered that she was a woman and not only the matriarch: the head of the family, support and breadwinner. She became a real woman, a fair one loved by a man. It seemed as if the weight she dragged on her back: the responsibility for the future of the children, has split into two parts and was no longer so heavy... Having fallen in love, Galina stopped to look for the father to her children. And when she dismissed the idea of being only a good mother forever, it turned out that the man who loved her adopted kindly her family as well. Naturally, he took her to the United States and did not forget about the children. We were so glad to see her happy and joyful. After all that, we understand that we have chosen this job for a good reason: help people in finding a mate. There is one more thing... After Galina had met her beloved, it became unimportant for her how much he earned and what was his job. The main thing was to be with him. We remember she told us that after the wedding, she realized how lucky she was in one more point, which had gone into the background, cause of her love: it turned out that he was rich, besides! She was surprised and delighted to find out that he was such a wealthy and respected man and his colleagues and customers appreciated him so much. When she was accepting his proposal, it did not matter for her: that moment a loving woman was just going to marry a man she loved and not a kept woman was looking for a sponsor, as is often happens nowadays. It turned out that the most important thing for Galina was to see in her husband the qualities and dignities of a man, not of a cash machine or a purse. And her fate finally rewarded her for patience and selflessness. Now her early life seems her just a joyless leaden sleep. But we are still happy for her and it has remained in our memory forever: the way she's never surrendered going towards her happiness, with patient dignity. We wish all the ladies to fight to the finish and fulfill their dreams! P.S. Galina is still the same lovely woman, who we met many years ago. Her children have grown up. She lives with her beloved husband, without greed, envy, or fear of the future. Having known that we are writing an article about her for you, she sent us their wedding photos: seeing them you'd be able to forget all of your fears and doubts and still try to find your true love.