Hello everyone! in fact, I started thinking about this topic after my friend told me that she has problems in the family. and after that, I concluded that she always overprotects of her husband, solves his problems and often just behaves like a mom.
but does it have to be like this?

yes, even the Bible says that a man is separated from his mother and clings to his wife. that's right. but should the wife become a mother to him?
I do not think so. when a man and a woman create their own social unit, they both assume certain obligations to each other. yes, support, yes, support, also love and mutual understanding... but no one said that he should replace his father for his wife.. and she was his mother.
this is by no means meant to be the case. and this is a completely different level of relationship... do you agree?

and in this case, the family model is lost.. and a man who should be the head and protector of his family becomes a son for his wife.

and unfortunately, marriages or just relationships where a woman decides to take on this role herself quickly fade away.

so is it worth changing true love and passion, for an empty opportunity to control everything?)
I think not... but maybe your opinion is different?)

I'm looking forward to having a chat about it