A father who is left with one or more children, especially at a young age, cannot fully "mother" his children after his deceased spouse.
However, after a deceased or divorced spouse, a woman can be a full mother and, if not fully, "father" to her children.
What I want to say here is that since our children are born because we want them, we should love them and do our best for them to grow up well. We should never judge them and see them as nightmares.
I observe that the children of divorced couples are generally unhappy and mismatched.
The reason for this is that the child falls into despair or misery because he wants to see the unity and happiness of his parents.
However, nowadays, children whose parents have passed away support this situation (marriage) with the thought that their parents should get married as soon as possible and that it will be a warm "family". ".
Men generally do not want a woman to have children. Or they do not take care of this child, they do not raise it and they cannot accept it as their own child (of course, he cannot be a physiological father). But, if the woman is a flower, and it is normal for this flower to have a leaf (child). So, the important thing is to love the flower with its leaf.
What happens in this case!? If the man accepts the woman's child or children (if they are older or especially small), and treats them well and treats them as his own, the happiness in the family is multiplied. The trust and love of yourself, your spouse and children also increase. Of course, the woman should act in the same way if the man has children.
In conclusion, what I want to say is this: I love children. It doesn't matter if a woman I can get along with has a child or children other than/Love/Respect.
The important thing is that the woman also respects and loves me and I will not betray her and she will not betray me as we trust each other.