I have to make a few comments regarding the post submitted by the gentleman's comments regarding a Face to Face meeting and Online Communication. I have to agree with everything that was mentioned in that post and would like to add a few cautionary thoughts also about that. With the choices that are all around us here, this site being loaded with thousands of honest and beautiful women it sure does pose a lot of stress and confusion about which lady you want to concentrate on. There are only a few of women that are here just playing around, but I believe that appears that way because they are really not sure what they want either. So, I do believe that you have to spend as much time as you can, and some times that is difficult when you have changes in your income, to really try your best to talk about as much regarding what is inside of each other. What I found for myself, that if she is willing to really open up and share it shows me that she is more real and willing to trust you with her feelings. I also know, that there comes a time to either make a firm decision to meet in person or just accept the fact that she may be a friend and don't push anything else. I think that after maybe 6 or 8 letters between each other will give us a fairly accurate idea on the direction the relationship can go and be the right choice for both involved. It is a decision that is the most important to be shared, it should never be decided upon alone. As far as chat goes, I myself do not do that too often, only when I feel that I am ready to meet in person and that will just give us a clear picture of how we each take care of ourselves. We all know that a lot of photo's here are professionally done and that is ok, but I also like to see the everyday real person just as much as the formal person. This is just my personal opinion and if at that point you can feel that you would really enjoy seeing her no matter if her hair is a mess from sleep, or she is only wearing sneakers or sandals, and in my opinion the everyday person is just as sexy as when she is all made up to go out on the town. Then it is time for a personal meet and in my case, I look forward to going to Ukraine to see her surroundings and the beautiful country she lives in. One thing that I would like to hear from the ladies is regarding how on earth they can stand on the extra high heels that are popular here. It scares me to even look at them, I know that I would be flat on my back if I tried that. Anyway, I also believe that it does not take months and months of letters to determine if a meeting is in order, and that is really when the decision for a permanent arrangement is made in truth. One thing I do know, that if we can make each other smile at each other in person, then it was well worth the time and the cost it took to get there.