Under the phrase "harmonious couple", many people understand about one thing: partners are suitable for each other, have a great relationship, in the end, look good next to each other. But all this does not fully reflect the essence of the concept.

And how then to strive for this very harmony, if you do not know what it is and how to achieve it?

Psychologists came to the rescue, who told us what kind of relationships are really harmonious and how lovers can reach them in real life.

According to scientists, there are five aspects that define a beautiful union and are present in the relationship.

Mutual respect. This is one of the fundamental conditions for a strong union of a man and a woman. If one partner is not ready or does not want to accept the other as he is, to accept his shortcomings and features, a good family will not work.

The desire to speak frankly with a partner. According to psychologists, the ability to find common topics of conversation, to interest the other in something-an important condition. But it is even more important to be able and ready to listen and hear your loved one. Pretending to be interested in discussing a topic is one of the types of lies and will not lead to anything good.

Feel yourself and be a team. This is expressed in the distribution of household responsibilities, and sincere care for each other,and in the feeling of being one. Remember the motto of the Musketeers: "One for all and all for one"? There is something like this behind the scenes in the relationship of the spouses.

A sense of humor. In a harmonious relationship, it is good not only to admire each other's skills, but also to make fun of the shortcomings, easily and with a positive experience of troubles.

Trust. In a couple where there is no absolute trust in each other, there is no happy future. Doubt can kill even the greatest love.

Love and be loved ❤️