How many people, so many opinions on the same issue. How many women do not ask how they understand and imagine love, each will answer in its own way. And although this is more difficult, it is still better. The easiest way to imagine the love of a man is like the hot hugs of a muscular barbarian or trips to prestigious restaurants and fast driving in an expensive car. Of course, it's easier. Templates like these feed us from everywhere, from TV screens, gloss, paperback love fiction, distorting the true face of love. And after this fairy tale, it can be very difficult to plunge into reality. Not everyone has the opportunity to inscribe a built image of ideal relationships in real life with its everyday life and financial problems. It becomes painful and offensive, quarrels and reproaches come and, as a result, a break in relations. Who is guilty? He who did not live up to expectations, or she who did not know how to appreciate what she had?

Probably, the question needs to be looked a little differently. All your relationships should be sharpened under one, proven for centuries, truth. We meet a person and find love not in order to change, but to rejoice in what is and to carefully cherish a joint feeling and cultivate it. Why try to break a person under a series of your stereotypes, if, at one time, you already felt good together.

Stereotypes, rose-colored glasses, idealism are practically different concepts, called upon in the relationship of a man and a woman with one goal - to prevent them from adequately perceiving each other and enjoying the feeling that has visited their hearts.

For example, one of the most striking stereotypes is the opinion that a man's love for a woman should be manifested in courage. In the view of dreamers, a valiant man must give his life for the hand of a lady, or, at least, stop a galloping horse. Today, being a man, in a saturated feminist society, is already a great courage. But seriously, you can never wait for the moment with a furious horse in your entire life, but you can enjoy small male feats, such as taking out the trash every morning without a reminder and a meowing kitten taken from a high branch. And although, according to the woman, this is not done entirely for her sake, let him, after all, while doing this, he thinks quite the opposite. This is just one myth that prevents women from loving and being truly loved. And there are many such delusions.

Gentle or rude, romantic or down-to-earth, rich or poor, in the end, a woman chooses a man herself, and you need to decide from the very beginning why she needs such a man to love or work out her pedagogical abilities, trying to force her far-fetched ideal out of him.