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long-distance relationships. is there a future?
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Of course! Every day people meet on the Internet. And it depends on you and on how you will communicate so that in the end this communication will lead you where you want. So how do you build a long-distance relationship?

If you met on the Internet and you only communicate virtually and there has not been a real meeting yet, then you need to make sure that this meeting happens as soon as possible. A man needs to see a woman and feel her presence, see her eyes and smile. And the point here is not in the intimacy and it is definitely not necessary to hurry with it.

In fact, acquaintance and communication on the Internet, as I believe, is much better than acquaintance on the streets of the city. On the Internet, if you like a person, you can talk to him and understand the course of his thoughts, the events of his life and what kind of person he is. These are the little things that we people have begun to forget in our time. Many teenagers now in particular, when they see the first cute guy or girl they come across, they jump into the pool with their heads. They do not really know each other, they are attached to intimacy in bed. Which may cause problems for both of them. It is also not uncommon for such couples to quickly disperse and divorce because after the candy and bouquet period, which ends very quickly, it turns out that the couple does not know how to talk to each other, does not share each other's opinion or simply do not find a common language. On the Internet, you need to know a person by their words and thoughts, and only in time will you be able to touch the body. I believe that what is inside each of us is more important than what is outside.
There are also disadvantages, or more precisely, tips and topics for thinking about communication on the Internet. The exoticism of tastes, language and appearance excites only at first. In the future, these charming dissimilarities (namaz at three in the morning, refusal to remove the sombrero even at night), on the contrary, discourage. Still, for reproduction, we try to select a partner of the same species as us.

If you want to continue a relationship with a charming stranger or stranger-weep, but learn her or his language, it's important! Don't expect too much from the first meeting.
Yes, if you are lucky, you will fall into each other's arms — and thousands of silver canaries will sing about the power of your feelings. But the canaries may not be in the voice, you should be prepared for this in advance. And it's not even that during your separation, she managed to get a Bob Dylan haircut and put herself in sapphire braces. What's more important is what you and she can smell. Only 2% of the information about the world around a person gets from the smell, but this 2% is crucial when it comes to real intimacy. To feel your own here is this girl in a mini-skirt, you need to properly sniff her (and her to you, by the way, too).
Don't make her jealous
Jealousy often spoils happy unions, occasionally makes them even stronger, but when it comes to long-distance relationships, it turns into the purest unalloyed poison. These relationships can only be built on absolute trust and absolute lies. Any hostage of the novel in a million kilometers is forced to take his partner's word for it, as he has no way to control it. In such a hopeless situation, a person usually subconsciously takes measures of self-preservation, namely: he is filled with a deep and unshakable confidence that the distant beloved is a miracle of morality. This is the only justification for the tedious, lonely life in the mode of eternal waiting. "I'm sitting at the window, I haven't gone anywhere, I'm still waiting for his ship to appear." Jealousy, which cannot be appeased by control, turns into such exquisite torture that the mechanisms of self-cooling are activated. If the partners in a long-distance relationship have doubts about the loyalty and true affection of the second partner, then such a relationship is almost certainly doomed. I think these are the most important aspects you need to know about online relationships. In fact, the main thing is what you think and who you communicate with, what your goals are and how much you trust your partner.
I hope my article was useful for you. If you have any questions or perhaps you have a different opinion, you can always write to me and I will be happy to answer you! I wish you all to meet your love. Be happy! Your Olga.

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