Many books, psychological treatises and diaries of ordinary thinking people have already been written about the relativity of the feeling of love. Indeed, love does not have a unit of measurement, it cannot be entered into a certain framework, one cannot compare the feelings and sensations of one person with another, one cannot get rid of it if it exists, and one cannot make love if the feeling itself does not dare to get into your heart.

What is this? Love, sympathy, attraction, passion or just sports interest - people often ask themselves this question at a certain stage of the relationship and make a stupid mistake. It is not so bad if a person thinks about purely his own feelings, tries to analyze his own thoughts and actions. But, even in this case, stereotypes and frameworks can prevent the development of real feeling, even in the bud, relegating it to the rank of simple sympathy and at the same time blocking the further development of a serious relationship. It is even worse when a person tries to analyze the feelings of their partner. Sometimes it is very problematic to figure it out in your head. What can we say even then about the thoughts of another, albeit close, but still, another person?

It is good for someone who thinks without stereotypes. But is it possible to draw an objective conclusion about the freedom of one's own views? After all, maybe your relationship is real love, but it is not the same as everyone else's, not the same as in the novel read yesterday, as interpreted by the director in your favorite film, not the same as you had before, not the same as you imagined. And, in general, another ...

How to understand that a love relationship is exactly what is happening between you now. In search of an answer to this question, you should also not put your love relationships in a certain framework and try to subject them to a harsh analysis. It is enough just to think about whether you feel good together, whether you are comfortable with each other, how fast time flies when you are around, how often do you think about each other, when apart, not be afraid to imagine how your life would develop without him or her, forbid yourself to compare their own with other love relationships and, in general, compare the present partner with the previous ones. You need to live and love. If you do not plunge into the maelstrom of relationships with your head, trying to keep your thoughts sober above the surface of raging passions, you may never be imbued with what is now and nearby and what you yourself decide to give up.