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What do our fantasies mean? (a very delicate, but important topic)
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1. Forbidden love
Your new colleague. Ex-partner. Your boss. Fantasizing about other people is normal, and this does not mean at all that you do not love your partner and do not enjoy him. Sometimes these fantasies can mean that you need something that is not present in the current relationship. Perhaps it is worth discussing with your partner the lack of tender feelings, or maybe you will understand what is missing. The main thing is not to take everything seriously and not to start lying and changing, this relationship will definitely not get better.

2. Submission
Not everyone wants to dominate in bed. If, for example, a woman has a responsible job, then it is quite possible that she wants to have at least some kind of outlet where she can make mistakes, be defenseless, and that this does not have consequences.

3. Dominance
And this option is often liked by those who follow the instructions of others. Following such a fantasy requires the consent of both parties. It is important to come up with a safe word and clearly understand what you both want.

4. A threesome?
Sometimes this fantasy indicates simple curiosity, sometimes-that you really want to see someone else pleasuring your partner. If everything is done correctly, an open relationship (for the night or for a long time) will only strengthen your connection.

5. In a public place
Why does it seem more pleasant in the toilet of an airplane or on the beach than in your own bed? The release of adrenaline from the idea that you can be caught gives very powerful emotions and enhances physical sensations.

6. With a representative of your own sex
For many, this fantasy becomes not only unexpected, but also scary. Does this mean that you are a d? Will I have to change something in my life? Most likely, no , it's just a reflection of your desire to try something new. Try to watch adult videos, read books about it. If the interest persists, you can find a way to implement it.

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