It hurts, it hurts a lot when you understand it. I really want to cry, because this love was once so beautiful, gave so much strength and happiness. She left so many memories ... And now, she is leaving so hopelessly and irrevocably.
At first, you try not to notice. You see how old feelings have grown old, but, you convince yourself, this is temporary, we are so busy. Everything will return! But if you do not feed love, if you do not support it with new impressions or simply absolute concern for each other, love will die.

Feeding love means helping the other person feel that you are interested in him as a friend, lover, and person. DO NOT stop noticing each other's needs. The need to fulfill these needs cannot be neglected.

If you became indifferent to how comfortable the other person is with you and you stopped seeing this trinity of qualities in him (friend, lover and personality), this is the funeral of love. The commemoration will be in a couple of years, remembering good moments with a smile and relief. And you simply missed the agony of love ... Or took it for an ordinary conflict.

But if conflicts are repeated for the same reason, and you do nothing, alas, from such heavy bodily, sick love will not recover.

Mentally wish your ex-lover to find the person with whom he will be happier than with you. Imagine that your beloved is with the one with whom all that did not work out for you. It is great to understand that you are not taking anyone else's place. And you can finally find your ...