Love it is when you are ready to change something in yourself for the sake of a partner.
We are all so different, with different characters and habits, shortcomings and advantages. We all grew up in different families with different orders and attitudes. Some creative people are characterized by creative disorder, scattered things and forgotten fast food boxes, notes on the refrigerator, spilled flowers. Others feel happy in meticulously decorated apartments with perfect order and not a speck of dust on furniture. But Love Happens! And the usual course of things changes, and we let a person into life with own way of life and habits. We love a person and are afraid of losing him or her, but we are annoyed by scattered socks, tea cups left on the table, and wet towels on the bathroom floor - that's all are signs that you are not alone) and you have a partner. So how to combine the Beloved person and his or her bad habits and at the same time not lose yourself and not destroy love by quarrels and showdown? My mom says that you need to change not your partner, but yourself - if you cleaned the house once a day, start cleaning two times a day. If you don't like the things under the bed, clean it yourself, You see that your beloved forgets to buy bread and milk, buy it yourself. Change something in yourself and adapt to your partner. Love rarely experiences quarrels and scandals, changing a partner and retraining is very difficult and almost impossible. Change yourself and adapt. And every time when you want to make a scandal or a quarrel, imagine that this person is no longer with you and you are alone. And only then choose to stay completely alone without beloved or change yourself ?
Natasha