🔴 Libido variability
A person's libido is changeable. Teenagers are hypersexual, and older people, on the contrary, almost do not experience sexual attraction. During life, the desire for intimacy cyclically weakens, then increases, and these are natural fluctuations.

Do not immediately look for a problem where it may not be. Some people do not experience any attraction at all, and this is also normal.

🔴Context and concordance
The same context at different times inflames the desire, then suppresses it.

The imminent arrival of the mother-in – law, children behind the wall, complexes due to changes in appearance, chronic stress-all this includes the "stop system" of our brain, through which the impulses of excitement do not break through.

🔴Health problems
Not the least important reason for the lack of intimate life in the family: health problems.

Some of them are obvious and are not related to the sexual sphere, for example, exacerbations of chronic diseases; others lie on the surface.

Pathologies that are not immediately visible are much more dangerous.

These include hormonal problems.

🔴Do not forget also about the new plague of the twenty – first century-the depression.

Depression is not always preceded by severe events, sometimes this disease suddenly happens, but a competent psychotherapist will help to cope with this.