Why do the majority of ladies start the heading of their letters with "Are you a real man?" If I wasn't a real man and here for real intentions than I would not be here!!! I know that does not apply to everyone here but it does to me and I could question Why do the ladies here state that they want real meetings? Even in their profiles, but yet when it comes to that then a lot of excuses are made or the date keeps changing!!! Us westerners or atleast this one believes that for every action there is a reaction and for every reaction there are consequences, it is also perceived that after so many words there has to be some type of action or how could you expect someone to trust you with no action behind your words. Everyone knows that the men pay for this site and that not everyone can sit on this site forever nor do they want to sit on a site as pen pals when the site offers several options!!! A friend of mine has a friend that just got married to a lady from Kiev about 4 weeks ago and she told my friend that if a lady from Ukraine really wants to meet then they will meet and if they don't want to meet they will not!!! So I have to wonder if this is true....? Trust is built on different actions and levels, so ladies the site shows when you was last on here, so if you are exclusively talking to someone with a 7 hr time difference and the person gets on the site and sees you just logged off but was on while they were sleeping how do you expect trust to be present when you don't even respond to their letter they left while you was on this site!!! The only true test for trust is to meet and when you get to that level of trust then allow them to get personal contacts to talk privately or would you rather undermine your relationship with doubts?
Just my 2 cents worth