On the wedding day, she thought that her husband would support her in sorrow and in joy, and they would overcome all the difficulties together. But in fact, it turned out that at the first difficulties, the husband merged. That is, she married a strong and confident man who promised her protection, and after a while it turned out that her husband was an egoist and lazy, who did not want to grow up and take responsibility.

A woman devotes herself to her family and expects the same from her husband. The family is an absolute priority for her, this is her whole world, and for a man, the sphere of interests is outside the family, he is focused on external achievements. For a man, a family is something that goes without saying, you don't need to work on it, where everything works without his participation. Therefore, husbands are often surprised when they receive claims in the spirit of "you are not helping me at all".

“In the sense of " not helping”?! You're on maternity leave! Well, let me leave my job, I'll sit with the child, and you go earn money, since it's so hard for you!”

This is about what most men say, and they consider themselves absolutely right. But how can you explain to your husband that a new washing machine does not make your life easier, and one day at home with a child is comparable to working in a mine in terms of energy costs?

If your husband does not want to help at all , it means that you have accumulated a lot of mutual claims and resentments. Because no matter how tired a man is, he is able to sit with a child for half an hour or cook dinner. He will do it for you, even if it is not easy for him. But if, despite numerous requests, the husband is still hiding on the couch behind the gadget - your union has cracked, and it's time to save him.

IN MY CASE, THERE WAS NOTHING TO SAVE!! THE MARRIAGE HAS COLLAPSED!