If a person feels peaceful and safe in marriage, the peculiarity of asylum manifests itself. In family therapy, the most common question we ask is whether the home is a safe place. Love alone is not enough. There is love, but they turn everything into intrigue.
In such cases, there is love, but he takes his wife, drags her somewhere, forces her to do something. Then the house is no longer a safe place. This is why we say that love plus honesty equals love for life. Then there is good cooperation, open and clear relationship. Love and honesty build trust. Trust also promotes cooperation and thus a sense of love for life develops.
Love and cooperation guarantee love for life
If lovers can work well together, love will not go away, if lovers have problem-solving skills, their love will be stronger, and if lovers have common goals, their love will take root. What makes a woman cute and attractive is her personality. It's not sexy or looks. It's not gender or femininity. For example, there are very charming women whose appearance is not too pretty. The share of female appearance in attractiveness is 20 percent.
Compassion and kindness are the magic concept of relationships
It is necessary to say, “What can I do for the good of marriage? If the spouses act accordingly, and the other side does not change: “I do not think this step of yours is right, I do not support it, but I leave it for the future of your children and at home. Saying "I haven't forgotten that" and ending the discussion leave the other side feeling guilty.
In such cases, if he can openly say that he does not approve, but say that he wrote it aside so that there are no incidents in the house and there is no anxiety, the problems can be solved. There are two magical concepts in relationships. One is kindness and the other is kindness. Compassion is more than love. This also includes empathy. Kindness is also more than respect, there is compassion in it. From the first day of marriage, it is necessary to transform compassion and kindness into a form of family communication.