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Why are people lonely?
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What is a family for?🥰
1. To share joy and sorrow. Feel mutual support and support.
2. Create your own little world filled with harmony and love. In order to later receive peace, stability and love from this world.
3. Have intimacy. I mean that there is no need to look for a partner, because he is always there and, in a harmonious relationship, intimacy will only be a joy.
4. Motivation for self-realization. The desire to do something for family and friends. The desire to provide for the family financially (lonely people often repeat: "Why do I need this, I'm still alone", etc.

What makes people lonely most of the time👨‍👩‍👦
1. They just want to be free
It is difficult for people with this attitude to enter into relationships that will reach the altar. Such people "do not owe anything to anyone." They hate any situation that limits their freedom.
2. Selfish
I am the universe. A relationship is a mutual contribution and work of two partners. It will be difficult for selfish natures to keep a person next to them who could sacrifice themselves to meet his needs, and not to meet the needs of the family.
3. I am no longer what I was
As we age, we become more intolerant of certain human actions. If at a younger age we could be more loyal to a partner, then as we grow up and gain experience, we become more demanding: “I don’t like that he chomps when he eats, he shuffles his feet and does not close the tube of toothpaste,” etc. ...
4. Don't want commitment
People who do not want to be bound by obligations also find it difficult to enter into a marriage relationship. "If I get married, then I will have to ..."
5. Don't want to be responsible
Only people who understand who they are and understand why they are doing it can afford to take responsibility for other people.
When a person lives being unsure of himself, then it will be difficult for him to take responsibility not only for others, but also for himself.
6. High standards "I want him to be tall, broad-shouldered, rich, smart, kind and ...". When a woman has formed an image of a man with whom she wants to be close, then the slightest deviation from her standard leads to an unfulfilled relationship.
7. Unhealthy self-esteem. "I am 50 years old, but I want to have a boy of 20 years old, handsome, athletic", or "I am 45 years old, and I want to be a young, slender wife and be smart and efficient." I have identified only a few reasons, but in fact there are many more. If you saw one of the listed reasons in your loneliness, then try to deal with it. You can do this with the help of a psychologist or on your own.

I will give a few recommendations for those women who are single, not because they have their own reasons for it, but because there are simply few men nearby.
1. You can artificially increase the ratio of men to women in your life. It is enough to find a hobby where the number of men is greater. These are any types of men's sports, recreation, etc.
2. Learning languages ​​will also increase your chances of meeting your soul mate. The earth is huge and there are many men on the entire planet.
3. Use the internet and dating sites, but be careful.
4. Appreciate yourself and the man with whom you want to enter into a relationship.
Remember, the family should be an oasis where partners support each other, where they can be natural and not try to play a wrong role.

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