For many years, gritting my teeth and smiling sweetly, I closed my eyes to the cat, bunny, baby, baby and other nonsense.
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And I always had questions: Where did you get this from? Why can't you communicate normally?
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Usually, people who treat you well and think that with their "cat" they express their wonderful attitude, and it so happens that everyone they come across is already accustomed to both the cat and the bunny and the sun, but this is not normal, usually allow themselves this.
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In friendship and in relationships, there may be cats and bunnies (not in mine, for sure, but they can), but in work and in communicating with unfamiliar people, this is overkill. I would say - impudence.
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Perhaps I will open super inside information for someone, but many people do not like and do not like it when they are communicated with like animals or when their names are covered (shortened as it suits them).
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Once I read an interesting article where it was said that people who often turn to others a la: sweetheart, honey, darling and everything like that from this series, in this way raise their self-esteem. A kind of desire to assert itself and an unfulfilled desire to dominate.
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And any lisp is infantilism and just smacks of insincerity!
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Draw conclusions and end this circus 👉🏻