There will be a lot of uncertainty: after all, few of us know which choice is the right one.
It will be scary and difficult.
It will be long: you are unlikely to see a quick result.
There will definitely be many, no. And "... but I don't have you" - will also be. And, most likely, more than once.

And if you stop believing in "the only ones", "destiny" and "non-destiny", in the "great plan", where everything has long been decided for you, then you can change a lot ...

And start with yourself.

Surround yourself with those and those who like. Avoid negativity where possible.
Make a choice in favor of yourself 9 times out of 10.
Do not forget that this life is one and it is yours. Therefore, you should not throw her at the feet of even very important people to you.
To be able to take the necessary pause from everyone and everything, not blaming yourself, but enjoying yourself.
More often say no to other people's desires, and yes - to your needs.
Spend time and resources trying to figure out what you really want.

And this is not about magic. Not about affirmations. This is about small steps every day that will lead you to yourself, which means - to HAPPINESS.

After all, HAPPINESS is the only criterion for success.

Do you agree?