At the age of a teenager, we begin to appreciate the appearance. So picky and so vain. The choice is large. Favorite leather jacket, watch or earrings. Isn't there too much "beloved" around us? Household items, fancy suits and other nonsense. It seems to me that with the growth of consumerism, people lose the value of the spiritual and tie themselves in a large knot with material benefits.
We are used to the fact that material values play an important role in our life. They're everywhere. We are sorry to throw away these old magazines that are gathering dust on the table in the living room. We are sorry to get rid of the junk in the pantry. It is with a heavy heart that we part with a shirt that we have worn for many years. We keep everything. We accumulate this junk in whole boxes and do not release it. We are addicted. We cherish and grab every rag with our bare hands. We are not free. It is so difficult to part with things, it is so difficult to let go of these trinkets. We build tragedies by losing a suitcase of things at the train station or losing a keychain. What a grief!
The human soul has become so crushed that things have become more important for it than the sincere smiles of relatives. Now it's just a pleasure for us to have a full wardrobe of clothes that are already falling out of the door in a complete lump.Why do we store so much unnecessary junk? And if I start my thought about things, so why not continue about unnecessary junk in relationships? Why is it so pleasant for us to sort through fragments of the most unpleasant stories in our heads!? Why do we love to cry over a breakup so much? We are too dependent on the past. We highly value our own chains. We are so attached to what is no longer there. What has lost its meaning, what has outlived itself and ceased to exist.
"You need to depend only on yourself. People are free, and attachment is stupidity, it is a thirst for pain"Attachment. If we cry over things and forget, then we will build dramas and tragedies over the people who have left us. Long. And always. Did you know that affection and love are different things? Did you know that there is a love addiction, and there is love? So what is the difference? When we love, we don't ask for anything in return. We do not oblige. For us, it is not required that a person is only with us. We're letting him go. We are not trying to keep it. Attachment is an extra pain for humanity. This is an addiction, a hobby and a habit. People are born free, but they drive themselves into cages. Into these traps, woven from unnecessary connections and people. We are afraid to be alone. Therefore, we create a dense environment of people who, in fact, do not bring anything useful to us in life. I have always believed that if the relationship has outlived itself, then there is no point in continuing it. You only pull these strings brighter, unable to refuse. You are only hurting yourself and the other person. Don't get attached. Stop marking time and learn to let go.
"A person should not get attached to anything. He should love, madly love, with all his soul, but not get attached"