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How does the brain decide who to fall in love with and who to feel just friendly feelings for?
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As the data is collected, one or another reaction to the behavior of another person is already beginning to be developed. This reaction is often accompanied by emotions and feelings, but which ones already depend on the combination of pros and cons.
A lot of advantages? Smells good, interesting conversationalist, escorts you home, buys you food, gives you your jacket in the evening? Love attraction will not keep you waiting!
Are there many disadvantages? Although it smells delicious and looks after itself, but zero attention to your person, does not understand hints, sprinkles inappropriate jokes? It is unlikely that attraction will appear, because in relation to you, ZERO positive steps have been taken.
Positive behavior towards you is the key to the appearance of a positive attitude towards the person and even sexual attraction.
But! Behavior can be performed and NOT in relation to you, but in relation to other people.
You saw how a person treats his partner with care, respects his opinion and generally looks amazing - this is also a reason for your subconscious to take and also inflame feelings for him or acquire envy. The brain is a very complex mechanism. So be careful!

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