How was that for an attention grabbing title? Glad I have your attention!
I do not propose to have the secret answer to this question,well, at least, for ALL men. Why? Everyone is different. Different men, different tastes.That is why ice cream comes in so MANY yummy flavors. Vanilla is not for everyone.
I am asked often: Should I get enhancements? MY personal answer is NO. I prefer your beauty as purely as it was created. That does not mean another man would not LOVE you to get silicone flotation devices in your chest, or some foreign jelly substance in your glutes or lips. To each his own. I drive a Camry. Another man drives a Hummer, or Porsche. Everyone is drawn to a particular ideal. But,ideal is not perfection. Women should NEVER be caught in this trap. Never say, "but I am not PERFECT", or "I have these faults, so no man will appreciate me as I am."
This is just patently FALSE. First of all, NONE OF US MALES IS PERFECT. Read that again if you need to. Second, we are just like you. We worry that you will see through the outer masculine facade, and spot our foibles.
If you feel like you wish to improve your chassis (car analogy), PLEASE, do it ONLY for YOURSELF. If, with no outside influence whatsoever, you believe it will make YOU more HAPPY, then go for it. Do not do it for a man.

I am asked, what I would like you to wear. Again, it should align with the purpose or activity. I personally wear jeans and a casual shirt in autumn. Summertime is shorts and a shirt with wicking properties (Ohio is hot). Another man may feel underdressed without a dress shirt or suit coat (which I avoid unless extremely necessary).

Guys (normally), do not wear make up, so that is an easy choice. Women, again, what makes you feel good. On a normal day, I would prefer to see my girl with very little, because she is beautiful to me, and does not need grease and powder to increase attractiveness. I am not a big foundation guy, but maybe some guys like it. A bit of liner, some mascara, and a touch of lip gloss, and my lady is ready to rock. I think it is funny when girls post a photo and its caption is "WITHOUT MAKEUP", when I can clearly pick out foundation, mascara, fake lashes, eyeliner, rouge, and lipstick (guys, if you find that amazing, maybe it is because I raised two daughters, one of whom is a makeup artist, so I know all the tricks).

Please make your picture match your message! Many times a story or anecdote is recounted, but the picture included has little or nothing to do with what you just told us. If you tell us about going to the store, do not post a pic with you wearing a flirty "going out/ little black dress", specifically purchased for a night out on the town. Does that make sense?

H O N E S T Y.
I hope I am not overstepping here. You all want it from the men here. Please reciprocate. I will NEVER put forth falsehoods to advance a relationship. What good is that relationship, and how long do we expect it to last? I am real. I am honest. I wish for every man here to give you the same raw honesty.

Interaction that advances our knowledge. Hopefully, if you write, you would tell about yourself, how your day was, why you hate pepperonis on pizza, the best pet you would love to have, etc.. Sometimes letters from women sound like excerpts from a dissertation for a PhD. If you want me to know you are intelligent, don't try to philosophize. Just be yourself.

In closing, some guys hope for a movie starlet. Some want a Playboy bunny. Some an adult film actress. I personally would like a girl-next-door type that maybe does not illicit gawks and catcalls, but exudes a refreshing sensuality that comes from within. Ladies, don't sell yourself short.

'Til next time!