I just read a post from a gentleman, a seemingly very smart man, experienced in life as it is, regardless of what we want it to be, which encapsulates my thoughts here on this site about what I look for here. To be honest, it was refreshing to know, I am NOT the only man on this site who seeks TRUE companionship with a woman. A woman I can share my life with and who will accept ME for who I am.

As this man said, and which I have said MANY times in my correspondence with the women here, I am NOT a rich and famous guy, I am just ME. A good man looking for a good sincere woman to share my life with.

I work everyday at a job that I like. It is a job where I get my hands dirty every day. NO, I do NOT make hundreds of thousands of dollars every year, but I do make enough to live a decent life.

So many of the letters I receive from women here, speak of a life of fantasy, a life where there are no worries, where traveling around the world, at a moments notice, spur of the moment, is commonplace. Perhaps for some, life is that way, but those people, are the few, and are far between. Many women here, speak of a life where routine does not exist, and which could ruin a relationship between two people, if it does. It must be understood however, that for all but the MOST wealthy, such a lifestyle is out of reach for the common man, the man most likely to be absolutely sincere, in his search. For the majority of us, we generally live a lifestyle, that has "routine" built into it, whether we like it or not! Life is what it is.

But then, oftentimes, "ROUTINE" is not so bad, and can actually be reassuring, helping to create a stable and predictable lifestyle. Your man goes to work everyday, he holds you close and kisses you before he leaves, saying, "I love you, I will see you tonight." as he walks out the door. You know he will be back that night to spend the rest of his day with YOU. Holding you close, cherishing every minute of being close to YOU, holding you, cuddling, and adoring every move you make, and everything you do, thanking God, that YOU are in his life! You should believe him, when he does such things, he is quite sincere in what he says and does.

For such a man, YOU are EVERYTHING to him. He lives his live for YOU. So should you leave him, because YOU think life has become "routine", essentially you have destroyed this man. A man who loved YOU with all of his heart and who did his very best to provide for YOU, so YOU could be happy. I know this feeling, it happened to ME. So here I am, searching, praying to find a woman smart enough to understand her good fortune, when she finds my heart open to HER!

I am just a regular, some say, simple man, who lives a regular, simple life. I am NOT embarrassed to say it. But I am a good loving man, with a big heart, looking for an equally good loving woman, to become the center of my life.

So women, when you look for a man to become your other half, your soulmate, your life-long partner with whom you can trust and depend on to be there for YOU always, you should keep in mind, he will most likely be a man just like me, a regular guy who works hard everyday for a living! And providing YOU give him a chance, and YOU are mature enough to understand, not everyday will be a perfect day, such a man will love YOU, and cherish YOU, until his last breath... God Bless the GOOD, TRULY SINCERE, women on this website...