I have always believed that it is possible to evaluate any actions of a person only on the basis of his actions. After all, they contain less lies and self-deception, they reflect the true essence of a person, his gut... Answering the question of what is more important — to love or to be loved, it is worth first of all asking another question, clarifying: for whom and for what is more important? If we are talking about the formation of a person, about the formation of his priorities and ideals, then, of course, it is more important to love. After all, this strong feeling is able to discipline a person, encourage him to take action, motivate him to conquer new heights.
But also do not forget that a person is a social being and it is important for him to feel his importance in society...to realize that he is appreciated and loved.
Therefore, I believe that it is important to maintain a balance in this matter and it is the person who loves and is loved by his chosen one who is happy!