The key problem is that if the process is configured incorrectly, the plant begins to generate DIRT. And since love and dirt are in closely communicating vessels , the tank of love soon turns into a tank of DIRT.

Another problem is that when the plant is idle, it does not produce "nothing", instead of love, the same machines begin to produce non-love: ignore, emptiness and meaninglessness – separate toxic varieties of DIRT. The problem with this is their invisibility (Buddhists would call it ignorance about the causes of suffering), a person simply feels some kind of deficit, lack, vague longing, but there is nothing to complain about, everything is fine, no one beats anyone. They also both think that the problem is in another, and everything needs to be repaired at the same time. Gradually it becomes nauseating and I want to pull away even more – but you're at the factory, where will you go from this submarine. Self-violence is added to the process of dirt produced, someone must force you to go to work. So they work in anguish until the level of dirt in the tank rises to a level noticeable to an external observer.


But this does not mean that it is necessary to beat – there is such a strong concentrate in violence that the life-giving drink instantly turns into poison. Therefore, less is better, yes it is better (non-contact than destructive contact), but we have to take into account that long non-contact is also destructive, because not being alive is not an option.

P.S. Asked: and what metaphor is suitable for people without a couple?

Whether you are paired or not, it is important to be able to remain a small private factory for the production of love. All the same about "machines" and business processes, only the "other" is the world.