Wow, I read a lot on this topic and interviewed my close friends, as well as clients, and the most important thing that I found was that everyone was divided....Someone said that this is " The ability to listen.", namely, this is "Good listeners — and not those who are just waiting for their turn to speak out." Others, on the contrary, considered that the most attractive thing in men is when they talk a lot. Best of all-about your hobbies, about something funny or just about everything, but respectfully.
I can definitely single out that both will be more important for me, because situations are different and sometimes it will be nice when a guy can listen, and sometimes he will tell you himself in a fascinating way....For example:

1. When he talks about something that he knows a lot about and that interests him, without looking down on you for not knowing about it.
2. A sense of humor. Someone who can make you smile and make you laugh with his charisma and sense of humor.
3. Manners and his polite communication with a woman and with others.

Many also mentioned sincerity and maturity. Self-awareness. What does it mean — empathy for yourself and others, kindness, honesty, deep conversations, CALM ENERGY. In fact, a REALLY good, sincere man, and not someone who pretends to be a good guy just to climb to achieve his goals with you.

Also in the top preferences there are: personality, smile, hands!
And the most important thing is that we all have the same unusual moments when they can attract our attention....Every girl has something of her own that attracts her in men, but first of all, we will always look at the mutual attraction, personality, manners, what energy a man radiates and whether it is good for us in the company with him!