To be married is not to be MARRIED, but to be behind her husband's back, because a woman does not need a ringed heel, but a loved one, with whom it is more fun, easier and more comfortable to walk together.
All this is tinsel, compared to what a woman wants from marriage.
To be held together, first of all, by spiritual, not legal ties. So that the phrase: "I am married" was pronounced loudly and with pride, and not in a half-whisper, with a bashful glance around. To be behind the back of a beloved man, and not a hated, disgusted husband. Feel safe, nurturing and peaceful.
A woman wants to become not a wife, but a beloved woman. Accordingly, she wants the same from a man. She does not need a husband, but a loved one. The one that will be stronger than her emotions. Who will feel its rhythm and harmony.
Every woman really dreams of being married, but not in the classical sense of the word. She wants to be with someone with whom the mutual desire to build a relationship will flourish; with whom it will be comfortable with both the sun and the hurricane; with someone with whom it will be possible to accept each other, such as they really are.