What in a person's life is a support and protection? That's right, family! So, with the family begins our journey into life.
Family happiness is difficult for couples to determine, as it is quiet in itself, not flashy and inconspicuous. At its core, it does not emotionalize with flashes of passion, brightness of feelings, constant love, as it was at the very beginning of the relationship. But, this is not the family happiness of man. Family happiness is harmony between people, and everything else is an application.

Rule 1. A picture of the world
Everyone has a certain idea that for him life, family, children, leisure, etc. When starting a relationship, many couples forget to share their worldview. They forget to tell in paints about the picture of the world in which they would like to live. This rule helps to understand how harmonious you will be before you get married. If you are already married and have a misunderstanding of what your other half wants, then this rule can help you find family happiness. Just start a conversation with each other and talk about your picture of the world.

Rule 2. Not to listen, but to hear
We can listen to anything in the background. We can listen to the melody, the murmur of the stream, the sounds of nature, etc. But to hear, it means to understand what is being said, to try to understand the interlocutor. In families, spouses often do not hear each other. There are two reasons: they do not know how to do it or do not want to. Try to listen carefully to your other half. If you do not understand something, ask counter-questions. It will also give your partner the feeling that you are really understanding what he is saying and it doesn't matter if he is telling a story or his experiences.

Rule 3. Free breathing
What does this mean? That means take control. It is enough that we were controlled by our parents for natural reasons, and when we get married, we want to be full-fledged with our partner, and not in the role of a controlled object. Try to give more freedom to your partner. Do not control his every move.

Rule 4. Personal time for everyone
Even if you are married, it does not mean that you have to live each other's lives. For harmony in the family, each of the spouses must also have their own personal life, their own space. It can be anything from hanging out with friends, playing football, fishing, etc.

Rule 5. Interests may not coincide
It's great to find common hobbies or try to accept and understand the hobbies of the second half. You may not like football or romantic movies, but you can always find what you both like.

The most important thing is that you have the desire to fulfill each other's needs.