You know, I am a very trusting person…
I believe in all good things, and it used to
seem to me that people are kinder and rejoice for the
success and happiness of others!
But, unfortunately, there is
much more negativity in people, it manifests itself in everything
- in broadcasts, in the news and just life.
For example, we came to a restaurant, we didn
't like it - so we are happy to
roll out a review about poor service. In the
opposite case, if everything goes well,
few people will tell about it.
There is an interesting parable Once a
teacher showed students a piece of paper with a
black blob and asked them to describe them,
what they see. The students vied with
each other to describe the blob where it is,
what it looks like… In the end, the teacher said
sadly: "You all saw only a
black blot, but you didn't see a white sheet
papers".
In many people, negativity always arouses
more interest than anything cool,
they feed on these feelings. The only
problem is that if you
treat such people, negativity gradually
fills you from the inside, and eventually
there is no room for bright feelings.
Continuing to talk about happiness - precisely because
of the emotional vampirism of people
there is no desire to share your
global plans, wonderful
events. Because even in them, many people
find something "wrong"
And no matter what "armor" of personal boundaries I
have, the negativity of other people is
still reflected in the state. That is
why happiness really loves
silence for those who devalue, feed
envy, hatred, and so on. But this, of
course, is not about real friends and
close people
Do you agree with this? Have you checked
the effect of this rule on your own experience?