It may not seem like it makes sense, but at the heart of it all should be the ability to be a happy and confident person without a couple. Relationships last longer if both partners are healthy, stable and confident. If you want to find your other half and for your partner to be as strongly attracted to you, you need to know who you are and what you want. You have to like yourself.
Develop positive character traits in yourself. Make a list of traits that you would like to see in your partner. Maybe you appreciate a good sense of humor or a nice smile. Maybe you prefer athletic people or people who read a lot.
Maybe you prefer athletic people or people who read a lot.
Don't give up on blind dates. Your friends know you and know what you like. Let them help you find a date if they think they know the right person.[9] Not all blind dates go well, but some people manage to enjoy them. Don't turn down an opportunity to meet new and interesting people.