It's like buying an expensive dress, but putting it on a dirty body.
Make a chic makeup, but do not wash your face.
There is an exquisite dish from a dirty plate.

It's disgusting to imagine, right?

So it is in life. We all began to pump ourselves in the aspect of uniqueness, forgetting to "reset". Hear yourself. To know the soul. And instead of a positive result in the form of an improvement in financial condition or a healthy self-esteem, we cultivate our ego to the size of a huge balloon, which, alas, is empty inside. We create an image of a pretentious unreal person, thereby putting additional labels on ourselves with a bunch of "not":
- you can't be weak;
- you can't go out for a walk in a black regular T-shirt;
- you can't seem stupid;
- you can't show your vulnerability.

In my personal experience, I have repeatedly encountered the thought: "No, no, no. I can't do that. I'm different. I have to do the wrong thing."

It's good when such installations work for the good. But soon they can begin to function in the vector of limitation and unnecessary burden. At least for a month, allow me not to pull on myself strange duties prescribed by dubious authors.

You don't owe anyone anything. Exhale.

Allow yourself to dance until the morning, put on your favorite dress (albeit simple), change jobs, do not pour clever phrases in every conversation. Stop creating the right image - fateful, sexy, rich, the smartest or, conversely, modest.

Don't come up with unnecessary problems. You don't have to be "someone".

You have to be yourself. perhaps naive, kind and simple. But without vulgar masks and makeup.

Breathe deeply.

Uniqueness is born inside, not outside. Besides, it's not about the courses