Blog
Stop apologizing. Rules for improving relationships.
id: 10044485

In any similar interpretation, this phrase has a destructive effect on relationships, for example:
• a person will stop sharing what he doesn't like.
• a person who has been made unpleasant will not understand if you have heard him .
• there is a feeling that no one has realized anything and a person is being done a favor by apologizing.

It is like.. you apologized, but you didn’t. Showing with all the appearance that you are too proud for this or that you don't care about the relationship, just to get behind you faster. Don't say that.

RIGHT:
• if you want to apologize, apologize sincerely, warmly and gently.
• if you think that you should not apologize, then try to understand your partner, because everyone has different needs, desires, concepts of norms and personal boundaries. What is normal for you may be unpleasant to another person.

Don't apologize just because the person expects it from you. After "sorry" there will have to be a certain adjustment of your behavior. After all, this is why people share with you what they don't like. Learn not only to speak, but also to HEAR your partner, react adequately when you are told that you have done something unpleasant. Person tells you this because he value the relationship with you!

I hope you were interested in reading my opinion and some rules 😌

Back