When a man can offer nothing but uncertainty, then the gross mistake will be the expectation of change ... This is a mental trap for a woman, a kind of hook that she falls into and cannot break out ...
Uncertainty is beneficial for a man when he doesn't care about a woman - he is happy with everything: sex, borscht and rock and roll ... And he doesn't care how serious this relationship is for a woman, because the goal has been achieved. He does not hold and does not let go, does not recognize his own and does not deny closeness - this indicates the absence of strong feelings and emotions. A man who is afraid of responsibility and, at the same time, afraid of losing a woman avoids clarity.
Uncertainty, like an unfinished gestalt, penetrates deeper and deeper into the soul with a needle, destroying faith and plans for the future. They seem to make it clear that this is the end, but the end credits never come. Such an alliance is doomed to degradation.
When a woman is really important to a man, he immediately sets priorities and puts a period instead of an ellipsis. Holds tight and does not let go. Not for anything and under no circumstances. A man interested in a woman will always and everywhere find her, even if she disappears.