An English proverb says "What is good for one is bad for another". And the point here is not only in the different persons involved in the same situation standing on opposite shores, but also in the perception of the problem as such.
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You most likely have heard the phrase "treat it easier" more than once, but most likely did not fully understand it. "'To treat easier' does not mean to ignore, it means to be objective.
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I can describe this problem using the example of women.
Almost every girl is ready to cry breaking a nail, but she cries not because of the fact of a broken nail, but because of the time or money invested in growing or manicure. She does not think at that moment that two weeks will pass and the nails will grow back, she only thinks that she has lost time and energy, and maybe the money spent on manicure.
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For a man, this is not a problem, it makes no difference to him with what length of nails his woman walks, the main thing is that these nails are clean and well-groomed.
The same happens with more global situations.
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But we must remember that a sharp reaction to any incident destroys the nervous system. That is why psychologists advise not to stutter on problems, giving yourself time for free reflection.
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This keeps the hormonal balance and protects you from stress.
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In my childhood, my mother used to say, "To solve a problem, you need to sleep with her. "That's why I don't advise you to be nervous. Just abstract from the unpleasant event so that you can look at it objectively the next day.
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In Russia there is a proverb "The morning of the evening is wiser." It says that problems need to be solved "on a clean head", which means treating them objectively.
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If you look at the situation objectively, it will no longer seem as terrible to you as when you first find out about it.
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I wish everyone to take care of themselves and their mental health.
Remember that your life and health are your main value, because neither one nor the other can be bought in a store for any money.
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Thank you for your attention.


SoftKate🌹🐈‍⬛