The goal of a relationship is something that you want to experience, value, learn more with your lover. It can be great to dream about setting an ambitious goal like winning the giveaway or traveling to different places together, but if you want to use goal-setting as a way to grow and strengthen your own plans in a relationship, it's better to set goals in love that are measurable and seemingly achievable - for both of you.

I believe that goals should be both fabulous and adequate.

They should also be something that you and your partner are interested in. Setting one-sided goals for a couple is unlikely to come true. They should focus on areas of your life in which you both feel a personal interest in growing, areas where you see opportunities for improvement that you both are optimistic about, as this will strengthen the future of your relationship.

Everyone dreams of starting a family. But let's be specific. For example, someone is childfree, and someone is ready for children, but later. Imagine your ideal day in a relationship. Where are you? Who are you with? What scent do you smell? What do you see from the window? These questions will help determine your search vector.