Get the person you like in 10 steps



You like him very much, your hands and feet are tangled when you see him. You think, "Whatever I do, I can influence him", but you can't find it. Calm down. My post below explains what you need to do to impress her.
THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO READS.Bülent

1 - BE EMOTIONAL DO NOT BE EMOTIONAL

Express your feelings. This is the surest way to impress him. Tell him that you like him and the effect he has had on you. Be sure to compliment. But don't make it emotional. Do not read a few poems by Turgut Uyar, Cemal Süreya that you memorized and tell what kind of crazy lover you are. If you throw him into a storm of emotions all of a sudden, you'll overdose on the relationship before it even starts.

2 - LIGHT HAIR TOO FLASH

Of course show yourself. Explain with your words that you are different from others, support it with your actions. Let him realize that he is someone who loves himself and has inner peace. But while doing this, “I created the worlds. Don't get into the "I'm your best option" mood. Everyone has alternatives. Doing so would be offensive.

3 - BE ENERGY.

Nobody likes lethargic people. Project your energy. Tell me what you do during the holidays. Show that you are interested in sports and that you have a high life energy, even if it is from the tip or the shore. But don't act like everything is a sport and the rest is a lie. Don't talk like you're going for a marathon soon. Do not act as if you have done all kinds of extreme sports or will do it when the day comes. As the elders say, "Sit where you sit."

4 - BE HONEST

Humility, or, as it used to be called, modesty works very well not only in love, but also in our relationship with friends or work. Of course, one must be self-aware. He should explain this to the other party without praising himself. But don't ignore yourself while being humble. Don't ignore your successes. When he tells you something about you and praises you, don't turn it down with lame phrases like "No dear, I didn't do much".

5 - BE GENEROUS, DONT SHIP YOUR MONEY

Nobody likes stingy. He who is stingy for his pocket is also stingy for his love. People who constantly calculate money and do not spend even though they earn are found repulsive. Moreover, the effect of a good meal, a good holiday and a good entertainment cannot be measured with money. But if you scatter everything you have to impress him, then you'll be in the middle of nowhere. Never go over your budget. Use your intelligence.

6 - BE KNOWLEDGEABLE

It is very important for you to be related to the world, to be aware of what is going on. If you're just watching TV shows and talking about them, you're out of luck anyway. It would be nice to pass on the information you have about your job. However, arguing about things you don't know, and conveying the information you have obtained half-heartedly as 'accurate information' makes you both arrogant and funny. Know how to stand on the fine line between being knowledgeable and being arrogant.

7- BE Dominant, don't be oppressive

It is good to make the other person feel your power. If both men and women are aware of their power, they will have no problem making it felt. If your self-confidence is high, that's something your partner will like. But the moment you turn your dominance into oppression, you move to another plane. The world is not ruled by your rules. Everyone has a lifestyle. If you don't show that you respect it, you will face the judgment of “This is how it is today, who knows how it will overwhelm me in the future” and you will be abandoned.

8 - BE HUMOR, DO NOT BE CYCLE

Decorating your speech with clever jokes always earns you plus points. Especially jokes about current issues are always useful. Outdated, cliché jokes add to the cons. But more important than that: Don't make fun of anyone for making a joke. Do not joke about his shortcomings, weaknesses. No one chooses someone who makes fun of themselves as a lover.

9 - BE TALKING, DO NOT TALK

You like him and the best way to express yourself is to talk. You should be able to talk about anything, not just how you feel about yourself or each other. You tell, he listens, he tells, you listen. But if you take the floor and talk for hours without stopping, it will only make you talkative. I don't know if I can tell you, chatters are not liked, talkers can't be dated.

10 - BE WHAT YOU ARE

Here is the most important point. Always be yourself. Don't show yourself any different. Don't pretend to be yours for things that don't belong to you. Don't make it seem like you're doing things you've never done to impress her. He should love you for who you are. Every act that you do to impress and that doesn't fit your character, every lie you tell will cause big problems for you in the future. And remember, the truth has a bad habit of always coming out.
SO, DO YOU LIKE? BULENT