What should be done to be a partner in the marriage and to make the marriage last for a long time (bülent)

What we call marriage is a partnership. As well as a life partnership... Just as bad partners ruin the company, being a bad spouse in a marriage makes your life difficult. If you have decided to get married or just got married, be sure to check out this blog post.

1- NEVER BE CRAZY

The roads are long, the living conditions are tough. In these difficult conditions, there will be moments when you will be angry and angry with each other. You need to learn to deal with anger, not to be cruel to each other.

2- KNOW HOW TO STEP BACK

You may be right in the argument. You can prolong the argument to prove you're right. But what's the point of being right after your marriage is in jeopardy? Even if you're right, sometimes take a step back.

3- EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING CHANGE

You and your lover cannot always be the same. You must be open to change. Instead of constantly telling your lover "You are not the same as before", you should be aware of the change in him and accept the change.

4- YOU ARE NOT PERFECT

Nobody is perfect and that includes you. You can't expect your partner to always act perfectly. If you have such an expectation, you will be unfair to him and you will be disappointed.

5- FORCING TO CHOOSE

Your wife had a life before you. His friends, his family, his hobbies... You can't ask him to give them up. Maybe you don't want to spend time with them, but you can't say "It's me or them".

6- CARE ABOUT HIS WIFE

You don't need to make big sacrifices. But you can't just ignore your spouse. Your spouse should be first in your life for you. And you have to show it to him with your words and actions.

7- JUST WAITING FROM HIM

The partnership is between two people and the responsibility is equal. So you can't always expect romance, financial needs from him. Also, such expectations are just as bad as being demanding.

8- GOOD DAY BAD DAY

No matter what, you have to be on each other's side. As you praise the good, you should be with him without question, even when he laughs at the bad. Only your support can get him out of that bad situation.

9- SHOW YOUR LOVE

With words, actions, touches, kisses... Make him feel your love in every environment and at every opportunity. Don't be a love stingy. These are the attitudes that feed your love.

10- Don't whine, take action

If you're complaining about something, don't whine to or against yourself and take action to remedy the situation. Complaining is just a waste of time. It's a pity, a pity for the past time...

11- SOMETIMES STAY AWAY

It is pointless to prolong discussions that do not reach a conclusion. It also harms the marriage. The best way to relieve tension is to get away for a little bit. Of course, on the condition that we talk about the problem again later...

12- FUN IS VERY IMPORTANT

If his day was bad, you, if your day was bad, he, so cheering each other up is also an important element of this partnership. Why did you get married if you couldn't have fun together anyway?

13- MUST ALLOW TIME

Things never end. But what did we say? Your first priority in life is your spouse. So, you're going to steal time for everything else and make time for your partner. If you can't, you can't run this business.

14- BE A PARTNER in crime

Marriage does not kill love, it is people who kill love. Become an accomplice, not just a business partner, to keep the passion alive in the early days of your relationship. Prohibitions or something.

15- ALWAYS BE FAITH

You cannot be a good partner if you lie and cheat in marriage. It doesn't matter why you lie or why you cheat. You may have the best excuse in the world for this, but it doesn't justify you.
I wrote this article with my habit of reading a long research book. Information is good when shared. bulent