Face yourself for true love and believe in yourself .bulent

The residue left in the soul by the loves of the past settles in the subconscious after a while. Fears from the past create a 'pressure element' when starting a new relationship or while in a relationship. Instead of experiencing love, the person begins to suffocate himself and the other person. In order to start a relationship, one must first feel ready. It is a big mistake to take a new person into your life before the heart wounds in the previous relationship are healed. It is imperative that the person also considers his own mistakes and, if necessary, criticizes himself ruthlessly. Everything that accumulates in our subconscious is poison for us. We have to drain this poison and get rid of its effects.

HERE ARE 10 WAYS TO ACHIEVE IT:

1- When your relationship is over, do not activate a backup person. This only serves to cover up the disease. Moreover, you will both regret this and you will get rid of the effect of the old one more difficult because you delayed the confrontation.

2- Even if you have been abandoned or deceived, do not put the responsibility of this job only on the person who did it. Think about your relationship thoroughly. Do you have a role in the factors that push him to this?

3- Friends are good. They always think you're right. However, you need to be ruthlessly criticized. For this reason, while you are reckoning with the relationship, do not do this by complaining to your friends.

4- The reason for leaving may not be satisfactory to you. But that doesn't change the fact, it's gone. Still "Why did he go?" search for the answer. Instead of asking this question, you should say "He's gone, but he left me good memories".

5- Thoughts such as “I will return him, I will make him crawl, I will make him beg” only come true in movies. And since you're not a movie actor? What you need to do is to leave the past behind to step into your new life.

6- In order for you to be able to fully face the confrontation, you must accept that it is completely gone and will never come back. As long as your hope persists, you cannot make this confrontation happen. In this case, the process will be prolonged and you will suffer more.

7- You have to be very honest with yourself if you want the relationship you had in the past not to cause a lack of self-confidence in the future.

8- Remember, it takes a lot of work to maintain a relationship. Likewise, facing yourself. You should set aside time for this every day.

9- Try typing. Write down any mistakes you see in yourself. You may not want to read it again, but be sure to write it.

10- After getting rid of your subconscious fears, you will be surprised to see how you are refreshed and ready for a new relationship. So now, stop blaming the one who left you and move on to confrontation.