You are disappointed: in him, in the relationship itself as such.
And the worst thing: this is not the first time this has happened, and you are desperate.
You don't believe that somewhere in this world there is your man and already with an ironic grin you look at the pictures of happy couples on social networks.
Has ceased to believe that such happiness can happen to you and you begin to feel inferior.
Sound familiar?
Let me tell you a very important secret: disappointment never comes without charm!
Well, let's say you saw the object of your adoration, and immediately assigned nonexistent ideal qualities to it,
who would like to see in her handsome prince.
And all why? Because he had some of the beautiful things - the title of a prince and a white horse.
Well, or his hair was light, and his eyes were blue, like your dad's, and your dad was a very wonderful person in every sense.
And you, out of nowhere, came up with the idea that a prince should be honest, noble, well-mannered, generous, kind, smart, with a wonderful sense of humor and an athletic body.
But it's strange, you must admit, even in fairy tales all the qualities of a prince were never described, they just said that he was a fairy-tale prince.
Everything else is just a figment of your imagination. And there are no clones yet, so it will be difficult to find a copy of the Pope.
Sooner or later, you come across reality, and ... Fi ... He's not that kind of Apollo, and he can also use foul language and not buy you everything you want.
And he may also not sing serenades to you and not write poetry, and he likes to sleep on the couch instead of going to different interesting places.
And then disappointment comes ... How?
How could this happen?
Where has my fairy prince gone?
And he was not! It was just your fantasy.
And the more disappointment you feel, the more your charm was with your own fantasy, which was never tested for reality.
What to do?
See your chosen one for who he is, with all the advantages and disadvantages (and not just disadvantages, as you usually do) and understand
Do you want to be with him and wake up every morning in the same bed, or is it beneath your dignity, and you will look for a prince "more princely"?
By the way, the same principle works with “princesses”.