How many people do you have for whom YOU can drop everything and rush to help at any time of the day, at any time of the year, at any distance ?! The next question is, how many people do you have who will rush to help YOU for the sake of YOU, the conditions are the same that I listed above ... well, is the number of people the same in one and the other version ?! For some reason it seems to me that you have counted more for the sake of WHOM exactly YOU can do it ... it seems to me everything depends on the fact that you trust YOURSELF first of all and you know that yes, you can do it, and there are not so few such people for the sake of WHOM rush to help ... And probably there are those who counted an equal number, and I assure you, there will actually be more people WHO can do for YOU ... everything is simple, if you counted some kind of best friend, for example, but For some reason (usually if he was not lucky with the choice of a friend) he is not as reliable as you thought, there will be that person you don't even know about, whom you just call and he will give up everything to help you ... you just have to how- we can’t communicate, we don’t know how to read thoughts, although some people feel it sometimes, I’m talking about such people ... we may not even guess that they exist ... just like that, with such an attitude towards you ... Honestly, here I would never want to check who will stay with me in difficult times, it's stupid about this me honor ... among schoolchildren I often meet such a status - "how do you want to see who will cry for me if I am gone" ... guys, are you normal ?! ?! when something happens, I think there will be absolutely no thoughts about how many people are standing next to you, the brain turns off and you just get support, but you don’t think ... I recently heard from a person whom I couldn’t even think about, words after which I can safely count it on both lists (only without fantasies on this topic, the meaning of my personal example in reliable people is simple)
I’m talking about this, we may not know, but we have support, and I think it is more impressive than it seems to us at first glance, it makes us strong and gives us the same immunity, I don’t know what the secret is, why we are someone may rush in, but someone is just trying to console them with a word, at best, why do we penetrate with all our hearts to these people, special for us?! ... I sincerely wish you that such people, about whom you are not even you guess, there was as much as possible, I seriously say, this is unreal support that you feel, but you may not even understand where it comes from, from whom it is ... just there ... and if there is, wave your hand to all problems and see behind your hand there are many other close acquaintances or hands not familiar to you ... they will, because they will definitely be ...