The man himself does not need much, he needs to be inspired so that he grows up. In order for a man not to lose his desire to show his qualities, it is necessary to learn how to properly ask for and accept attention and support.

Psychologists have noticed two reasons why a woman is not happy in the process of building relationships: if she does not ask enough, or if the request is expressed in such a way that it does not give the desired result.

Women mistakenly think that it is unnecessary to ask a man for help and support.

The fair sex is more emotionally receptive than men. They feel who needs help and rush it. A woman believes that a man, if he loves, will guess what she thinks, what she feels.

In fact, he cannot know this, if she wants to get something, it is better to say it directly. If a woman asks for nothing or asks for little, the man develops the opinion that the efforts that he makes are quite enough and nothing needs to be changed.

If a woman wants a man to grow up and do more for his family, some effort is needed.
If a woman does not receive, as it seems to her, what she deserves, and a man can give her, but for some reason does not, there are reasons for this.

To remedy the situation, take a few steps. Step 1 is learning to ask for what she's already getting. A woman should look at what the man is doing now and start asking for it, for example, if he is taking out the trash, ask him to take out the trash.

After he does everything, be sure to thank. You should not ask for more at this stage. You need to give the man the opportunity to make sure that your requests do not sound like demands. If he hears a commanding tone, the words themselves, no matter how correct and fair, will not matter.

A man will feel reprimanded and believe that he is not loved or appreciated. Hence his tendency to limit his efforts until his wife appreciates what he is already doing. When a man sees that a woman is happy and attaches great importance to his efforts, he will, to the best of his ability, respond to her requests. Over time, the man will automatically offer his help.