1. Everyone except close relatives can be replaced. No one and nothing happens in one copy. Let new people into your life, even if you don't understand yet if you have anything in common. One day you will realize that you are alone, and this will save you.

2. Always try new things: food, clothes, routes, gadgets, activities, movies, books, theories and explanations of the universe. The brain is made of lazy gum. The further away, the more he wants to bend in the same places, the rest of his convolutions tend to disappear. Don't let him stick to the same things, pleasures, ways, ways and tricks. Always try new things, especially when you're lazy, scared or don't want to. One day you will realize that you are alone, and this will save you.

3. Forgive everyone you can, forget the rest. Oblivion is the best punishment and the best medicine. And never argue with anyone, it's better to get a manicure.

4. There is no hurry. Everything that happens quickly doesn't last long. If you really want something– you will do it. If she didn't want to, then she didn't need to. Put off risky desires and actions, letting them "lie down". Do something you are not sure about, only if the desire has been haunting you for a long time.

5. This point complements the previous one: if you really want something, and you think it's right, do it. Desires are life. Let the desire live inside and watch it. If it hasn't disappeared, follow it.


6. Don't give up until you want something. Luck is an experience, that is, the number of repetitions. Any failure is a lack of experience and is compensated by experience. Courage and risk are an experience. What sometimes looks like utter arrogance is an experience. Resilience, tolerance, forgiveness, resilience and independence are all experiences. The main thing is not to give up until you want something.

7. Nothing is the end, even the end: everything is just a flow. Remember this in despair, in grief, at the grave of a friend, reading a letter from a loved one who left you. There will certainly be a day when you will say: "And for the best!" (this is especially true of a loved one:) Nothing is the end: one day you will realize that you are alone, and this thought will save you.

8. Nothing is the end, but the end is near. And it is more useful to think that he is tomorrow. Then it is easier to follow all these points.

9. Do what you want, but take care of your body, otherwise it will unexpectedly take revenge on you. Get into the habit of asking what it wants and doing it. If you've never listened to the body and don't know how it talks, start with simple things like forest walks, swimming or yoga. Then everything will happen by itself: the body is waiting to be heard.

10. Romance, love and passion are wonderful. But if you confuse them with sex, you can stay without it for a long time. And this is stupid and harmful. Make it so that you have sex. Let romance and love, when they come, find you in bed with a new lover.

11. The last thing to worry about: what people will think of you. People think mainly about themselves, and also about you, measuring by themselves. That is, they don't think about you or each other. Do what you want and see point 7.

12. Be afraid of confidence. Confidence is the beginning of insanity. Doubt, admit other options, leave open escape routes for yourself and others. I doubt every point I've written. But this second, I think I'll leave everything as it is. One day I'll be alone, and I'll see if all this will save me.

P.S. This is the only point I have no doubt about: take care of your friends. Friends are the only thing worth accumulating. One day I'll realize that I'm alone, and friends will immediately descend and say: you're completely out of your mind, you've got us. And it's true :)