People often encounter the fact that they confuse falling in love with love, taking temporary hobbies for true deep feelings, or missing out on true love in search of a permanent passion. To avoid such self-deception, study the following main differences between love and infatuation:
The duration of feelings. Love doesn't happen all at once, it's an ever-growing process. It is predictable and logical, because it occurs between relatives and close people. Falling in love is accidental, a person never knows when he may fall in love. This feeling appears suddenly, like a flash, but over time it can also disappear fleetingly. Falling in love does not necessarily last long, because it is based on infatuation or passion. Falling in love can quickly disappear, and love increases over time.
Perception of shortcomings. Loving people know and accept the shortcomings of their halves. They are ready to live with a person, accepting him with all the flaws. Falling in love blinds people, so they do not notice the shortcomings of the objects of their hobbies and consider them flawless. There is no illusion in love: you love the other person as he really is.
Emotions. During falling in love, people experience a strong emotional surge, while feelings of love are based on actions. Despite the fact that emotions can be more intense, true love is much stronger than falling in love.
The power of feelings. Falling in love is relatively superficial, love is a very deep feeling. Loving relationships are characterized by trust, respect, loyalty, which may not be fully manifested or absent when in love.
Love is a calmer feeling than falling in love. Falling in love makes you want to spend all the time together with a person. To love means to give a person personal space and trust him.
Willingness to overcome difficulties. The bond between people in love may not be strong enough to withstand difficulties. The bond between loving people is so strong that it allows them to cope with life's problems and, no matter what, always stay together.
The perspective of the relationship. Falling in love occurs at the initial stage of a relationship, sooner or later it passes. Love is a long-term feeling that does not go away. True love stands the test of time.
Love and be loved!!!
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