Her psychologist, who told, was surprised and shocked by this story. A young woman approached him and said this.

She used to complain from childhood. She had such a strategy. Slightly something happened, she immediately complained loudly to others, sadly talking about her problem. Her mother did the same. And my grandmother always advised to always complain to kind people, moan, cry, and it would become easier. Now, by the way, some psychologists also call this method.

Well, this woman was complaining to her friends. Everything was fine with them: all three friends were married and had children. They had a good job and their husbands earned good money. And this young woman had nothing of the kind. No husband, no children, no job, no money, no attractive appearance ... And friends, they talked since school, invited this woman to somehow support her and dispel her sorrows. The meetings went like this: The victim complained and sat with a sad face, listing her misfortunes. And her friends consoled and supported her. Directly eagerly. The victim shook her head and devalued the support. Say, everything will be bad anyway. It's easy for you to say. And everything is so bad with me, so bad ... And again she complained, and she was again consoled.

Psychologist, how did it end? The victim smiled so playfully, flashing white sharp teeth, and said that now everything is fine. She got married, gave birth to a child, and found an excellent job. The husband also makes good money. Only the girlfriends stopped communicating. All three of them started having troubles and problems. Health collapsed, marriages broke up, material problems began. And these superstitious ladies blamed the Sacrifice for everything. Well, not directly, of course, but they stopped communicating altogether. Doesn't answer any calls or letters. It's very lonely now. Very sad. In one it increased, in the other it decreased ... The Psychologist began to look for the causes of the Victim's toxic behavior. He explained that this is a family tendency.

Program and pattern. That you can get rid of the habit of complaining if you work hard. If you realize and stop ... You can improve relationships with your friends!

The victim replied that she had come for another. How can she find new friends, huh? After all, now I want to give birth to a second child and continue my career. How to learn to find new good friends in order to fulfill your plans? Successful, cheerful, energetic, happy ... But why build relationships with old ones?

She has already eaten the old ones ...