The biggest loss is the loss of love.

Loss of a loved one; whether he left or died, it doesn't matter. The most important thing that the soul lived with has been lost. For some time a person still tries to live and breathe, still waits and hopes.

And then he gets used to lying quietly in the bed. Or he go to work, socialize with others, perform duties ...

Scientists observed children who were left without a mother. The mother was separated from the baby; to be honest, they were imprisoned. They were sent to serve their sentence when the child was six months old. These were the criminals, the most beloved and closest people, mothers.

At first, babies were drawn to any person who emanated warmth. They held out their hands, cried, screamed or smiled with all their might in the hope of finding a mother. They were reaching for the first person they met. So they hoped to find a way to the warmth and love of their mother. But the mother did not return. And the babies were crying softly in their cribs. Quieter and quieter. Less and less. And then they just lay there, indifferent to everything. Indifferent and calm ...

This is how the human heart experiences the loss of love. At first she cries and screams. And makes you cling to the first comer. And then indifference and calmness sets in. And the human lies quietly in his bed. And he doesn't hope for anything.

And even if the mother returns or the one who disappeared and left, breaking his heart, this will not change anything. And no one is needed. Nevermind. Because it is dangerous to love and attach.

How many of them are quietly lying in their beds? Those who are no longer waiting, crying and not believing? It's so sad. Because they no longer need love - they somehow managed without it. You can do without love. And become calm and wise. Almost lifeless ...