To love yourself is:
1. Take care of yourself. Loving yourself is taking care of yourself in the spheres of life, to your health, self-realization, relationships, etc... I have a friend who works hard at two jobs and, coming home, does household chores. He works hard, sparing no effort to feed his family. While her husband, coming home from work, collapses on the sofa and only shouts: "I'm tired too, I'm working too," and lies scratching his belly. How will this affect her? Naturally, the deterioration of her physical and emotional well-being. A girl, in order to truly be happy, needs time for her beloved. Remember that your personal life, health, mood is very important. Negligent attitude towards yourself can lead to not the best consequences.
2. Be able to calm yourself. Of course, we can hope that there will be a person who can cry in a vest. But this option does not suit me at all. A girl should always be able to take care of herself on her own in any situation. And she should take care of herself the same way she would take care of the dearest and most beloved person. The day went down the drain, and the evening does not bode well - everyday life, misunderstanding of relatives and friends? Put all this confusion aside for later, distract yourself from the problems, allow yourself to indulge in rest and calm down. Take a hot bath, wrap yourself in a blanket, surrounded by a bunch of goodies, turn on a movie that you've wanted to watch for a long time. Give yourself the opportunity to spend the day for your beloved. If you think you have more important things to do, put them on the shelf at least for a while and take some time to relax. Allow yourself this.
3. Pamper yourself. Do not deny yourself the fulfillment of your little desires. Don't ignore your own needs. If you have a desire to treat yourself to a cake - buy a cake and eat it. They wanted to buy new cosmetics, visit a cosmetologist, a nail salon... Do not wait for it to be more convenient, there will be time, etc ... Allow yourself to take care of your beloved.
4, Accept yourself. Every girl should love herself. There is no girl who does not deserve love because of any shortcomings. I will assume that most of the shortcomings you have made up for yourself, and they do not make sense. And even if these are real problems, this is not a reason for not accepting yourself. If you still have thoughts about your shortcomings, think about what advantages you can get from them.