Love is a crystal clear feeling. People respect each other and value this relationship. Everyone knows that it is important to be able to communicate and find a common language. Common sense is always needed. As soon as people bring problems from childhood or unresolved issues into new relationships, a fatal mistake begins. Why? Toxic relationships are now called neurotic relationships. As soon as our psyche does not cope with a loved one, this is a wake-up call! There are several signs by which you can tell that something clearly unhealthy is going on. If your partner is not interested in your life, he does not want to know anyone from your environment, or he is afraid of serious actions - this is strange. There is even a diagram or a curve connection: I suffer - I love. Love is suffering. And I feel sorry for myself because I suffer. That's it, here he is - a ready-made neurotic. Are we born for this? Of course not! You must always listen and hear each other. Healthy love is a surge of positive emotions, and nothing else. This is happiness, smile, joy. It has no negative side, no sacrifice, no self-giving. And remember! To love someone, you have to love yourself initially.