Resentment for life -
the most dangerous condition. "Why did this happen to me?", "Why is everything good for others, but bad for me?", "Why am I not getting what I deserve?" ... Or like Marina Tsvetaeva: “Why should I wash the dishes if I was born to write poetry? … Resentment against life is a destructive feeling that will instantly lead to failure and poverty. A person fixates on problems, sincerely believes that he is special, and everyone should give him for free and skip everything out of turn. And a place to give way. And anything can happen to others, but not to him. And resentment against life causes depression; like any offense. Moreover, there seems to be no one to make claims, it remains to recoup other people. Or - on yourself. The people around do not allow themselves to be recouped painfully. Therefore, a person begins to involuntarily hurt himself and prove to himself and to others - his life is very bad! There is something to be offended at, as you can see. Here, another failure happened ... And Maupassant at the end of the sad novel "Life" wrote simple human words, which the maid said to the desperate, ruined, deceived by her husband Madame Jeanne: "Life is not as good, but not as bad as people think about it." ... "And these were healthy and truthful words. And these two women, who had gone through a lot, followed the baby - a child was born from a dissolute son. And it was wonderful and delightful - a child appeared. And life goes on. And again you need to take care of someone and to love someone again, and not to cry about past disappointments and grievances.This is life, everything is mixed in it. They are not as good as they say. But not as bad as people sometimes think of her. Simply - a life that should be accepted as it is. And do what needs to be done without getting too annoyed ...