But is it okay to sacrifice everything for your partner?
Sooner or later, the other person will demand more and more, and even more ... not appreciating what give. And now a ring with diamonds is not enough for her, a gold necklace is not enough ...
At some point, manipulations like “Can't you buy me this car? ... I thought you loved me and would do anything for me! "
As a result: a partner who used to sincerely rejoice in a card with a declaration of love, now there is not enough car)
Have you ever had such a situation with a girl?
The desire to deserve love, to receive it in the form of things or services appeared in deep childhood ... Did you know about this? First we try to earn love from our parents, and then from others ... sad, right?
I also have this, the desire is shared by the last!!!
For example, as a child, my parents bought me a bicycle not because I had a birthday, or simply because all the children from my street already have them, but on the condition that I finish the school year with honors ... and so in many things, conditions were set for me - if you do, I will love you ((
And I did ... for a new cool jacket, for a new phone, for tickets to a concert of my favorite singer ...
It seemed to my parents that so, they motivated me to study and become successful.
And chocolate ... I will give the last piece to you, in the hope that you will love me more for it ...
But maybe we will love each other simply because we love each other, and not for a piece of chocolate or a donated car?
You will have your own chocolate bar, and I will have mine. Or maybe you have a different opinion? You will tell me?